Choose Now

I was sitting with a friend today who was heartbroken and crying. She had just found out that a dear friend had died. It brought me back to a thought that I have had many times before. I think about how many times have I regretted not doing something or saying something to someone and the opportunity was now lost. Most of us have had these times of regret. Maybe we thought we would be able to do something later. Later, when we finish this project or that project. Later, when I have more free time. Later, after I retire. Later, when I have more money. As I grow older, I realize that there is not much time for the “later.” Time passes more quickly as you age. It is true. The hours, days, weeks, and years slip by. You look in the mirror and the once younger you have wrinkles and gray hair. (And if you color your hair and have a great skin care regime, well, I know you still feel it in the morning when you are trying to get out of that bed!) We all have things that we have to do, of course. However, I want to encourage you to stop waiting for “later” to do those things you want to do. Say “I love you” more. Do not hold back and worry what someone will think. If you feel it, say it! People need to hear it more often. Tell people how proud you are of them. Be an encourager. Eat ice cream for dinner…ok, not every day. (And as a nurse I am obligated to say that you should eat some protein after. Unless your ice cream has peanuts or peanut butter, then you are golden.) Spend the day in your pajamas. Whatever it is, do it. For me it was dog training. I always dreamed of helping others with dog training. I have always loved it. Dogs are so awesome. Ever notice that they do not wait. If they see it and want to eat it, it is gone. Ten second rules do not exist in households with dogs. They run, they play, they sleep. They do not have issues saying I love you; You get the kiss, slobber and all. I love the way dogs are just so real. We need more real. So, here I am. I am being real with you. I love training dogs. I am not always the best. My dogs are naughty, but they are impressive. We are moving forward. They are making progress and so am I. I take time to learn more regularly. Sometimes I do not “have” the time. I take it anyway. Sometimes I do not “have’ the money. I find it. Life is short. I have stopped waiting for “later.” The time is now. So, do something today that you have been waiting to do. Call someone and just say “hi” or “I love you.” Go for a walk. Eat the ice cream. Train the dog! Do not waste your time planning. Take action. We get one shot at this, guys, make it count.

Thank you for helping me change my “later” into “now.”

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